Why Sarah Mclachlan is One of the Best Female Musicians of All Time

Sarah Mclachlan. You might know her for a few things. The song Angel. Her tear-jerking ASPCA commercials. Being Canadian. Lilith Fair. However, in my opinion, she is so much more than this and is totally underrated as an artist.

My journey of listening to Sarah Mclachlan started when I was very little because my mother loved to play her live album Mirrorball in the car. I always enjoyed her soothing voice, but at this point in my life, I was more interested in listening to Kelly Clarkson, Carrie Underwood (whom I both love), as well as other more teeny bop, popular musicians. My love for her resurfaced though when my acupuncturist who I saw when I was in the 4th-6th grade (yes, I really did start acupuncture that young, lol) played her Afterglow album while I was getting treatment. This really helped me relax and evoked my imagination while I was lying on the table with needles in me. As you can probably guess, it is not easy for a squirmy, ADD ten year old to just lay there and unwind for 50 minutes. Sarah Mclachlan made it a lot easier for me.

The day my obsession with her music surpassed my mother was when I started high school and was really struggling with loneliness, depression,  finding my place in the world, and understanding society. I usually don’t listen or try to interpret lyrics as I like to focus on the voice/instrumentals, but Sarah Mclachlan forced me to listen. Unlike many other artists, Sarah Mclachlan writes about the human experience. She writes about growing up, tense family relationships, passion, betrayal, rising above circumstances, death, loss, the dissolution of relationships, hope, everything really. You may or may not have noticed that 99% of songs are about romantic love. While Sarah Mclachlan writes a lot about romantic love, her music differs as she goes into the deepness of it. The words she uses to describe a relationship makes you feel like you’re in the relationship even if you’ve never had one. This is especially evident in the lyrics of her song Stupid when sings,

“Love has made me a fool set me on fire and watched as I floundered
Unable to speak except to cry out and wait for your answer
But you come around in your time speaking of fabulous places create
An oasis that dries up as soon as you’re gone
You leave me here burning in this desert without you”

Sarah Mclachlan feels things deeply and this is definitely evident in all of her songs. It’s almost as though she’s letting you inside her head and I feel like emotional, intense thinkers will be able to relate to her lyrics. While I can’t say I’ve ever dated or known someone like in her song Building a Mystery, the lyrics are the ones I’ve pondered on the most out of all of her songs. These lines particularly resonate with me,

“You live in a church
Where you sleep with voodoo dolls
And you won’t give up the search
For the ghosts in the halls
You wear sandals in the snow
And a smile that won’t wash away
Can you look out the window
Without your shadow getting in the way?”

She writes with sophistication but without pretentiousness. Her songs are raw and real, and feel as though you are listening to the finest of poetry. However, like I said earlier, voice and instrumentals are just as, if not more important to me than lyrics. Sarah Mclaclahlan’s voice has an earthy, distinctive quality to it, but unlike other earthy sounding musicians, her voice is easy to listen to. She also has the ability to sing extremely, extremely high, almost like an opera singer.  The instrumentals on her songs are also unique and give her easy listening songs a rock sound quality, which therefore, makes for some really phonoaesthetically pleasing songs.

She is also just as phenomenal of a person as she is a singer. She created a ground breaking all female singer-song writer festival that was created to dispel the myth that women couldn’t be played back to back to one another. She also created The Sarah Mclachlan School of Music, a free music school designed for at risk youth. I also went to a concert of hers two years ago and it was an extremely intimate experience. She had a couch on her stage and selected people got to come up on the couch during a break in the concert and meet her. Sarah was extremely gracious and kind to those who were on the stage. Additionally, she had people write questions and put them in a hat. Then, she answered a few of the questions for the audience. It was by far one of the most interactive musical experiences I’ve ever had.

I’d highly recommend checking her out and not just her biggest hits. She has a huge library of music and there are very few songs of hers that I don’t like or feel meh about. I’ve created two playlists, an intro to Sarah Mclachlan playlist and a playlist for those who are familiar with some of her work.

Intro to Sarah Mclachlan Playlist:

1.) Angel

2.) Witness

3.) Adia

4.) I Will Remember You

5.) Fallen

6.) Fumbling Towards Ecstasy

7.) Good Enough

8.) Possession

9.) Sweet Surrender

10.) Building a Mystery

Other Incredible, Epic Sarah Mclachlan Songs:

1.) Steaming

2.) Vox

3.) Black and White

4.) In Your Shoes

5.) Monsters

6.) Time

7.) Stupid

8.) Plenty

9.) Wait

10.) Don’t Give Up On Us

 

15 Things I Would Tell My Teenage Self

My teen years weren’t the easiest of times. Between a tough course load, awkward body changes, and navigating the ever so complicated social scene, the teen years are not as wonderful as those movies, tv shows, and books make them out to be. I am graduating high school this Friday and now find myself in a reflective state of mind. Sometimes I wish that I had an older friend to provide me with comforting advice to make getting through my teen years easier. Therefore, I decided to compile this list for current teens  who might be struggling and myself as sometimes I have to remind myself of the things I have learned. After all,  everyday you have to force yourself to grow a little bit more, right? Here are 15 things I wish i knew during my teen years.

1. ) You will not get electives in high school: Yes that was a complete lie. If you want to go to college you’re going to have to take less than desirable classes such as Chemistry, Algebra II, Economics, and French instead of classes that would’ve enriched your soul. However, you will get through it. There might be blood, sweat, and tears but the pay off will be tremendous.

2.) Do not be friends with someone just because they like you: Making friends will be a struggle for you. Because of this, you might feel the urge to grab the first person that shows any interest in you and hang out with them. But often times they will either be kinda psycho, superficial, or just wanting to hang out with you because you’re a person to go do things with. Do not spend your time or mental energy on these people.  Instead cultivate relationships with people who make you feel your worth. Having one really amazing friend feels so much more fulfilling and spiritually empowering than ten flaky friends.

3.) Your twin sister is your best friend and don’t ever forget that: Your twin is always going to be the most loyal, trustworthy, nicest, insightful person you know. She will always be there for you and don’t discount her just because you didn’t have to impress her in order for her to be your friend. Hang out with her more often, this will make your high school years much less lonely.

4.) Girls who say “love you” on social media don’t really mean it: You will have friends who will comment on your pics or posts and say “I love you” or “Love you Alex.” You will not know these girls all that well and be in the budding stages of cultivating a friendship. The fact that they say “I love you” so flippantly  like this means that they aren’t the type of people you want to be hanging out with. You will find out that they don’t care about you in the way that you thought or they’ll only phone you up when they have no one else to talk to. Lesson is, many people will not take the word “love” as seriously as you  do. Be wary when people use this word.

5.) Confidence is key: You will meet people who are super weird (and not in that good way ), uber crazy, and annoying. These people will serve you well because they will teach you that their confidence is what draws people to them, even if they are the strangest of the bunch. Just look at Donald Trump!

Don’t worry about every little thing you say to people or how you present yourself. If you aren’t as socially anxious and focus more on the activity rather than impressing people, you will be surprised at how many more people like you.

6.) Wear makeup not because you think it will make you prettier, but because it will make you feel good: Makeup will not make you prettier and you don’t need to do elaborate, heavy duty looks to be pretty. However, with that being said, it’s fun to see your lips different colors or to amp up your naturally luscious lashes. There will be a makeup debate. One says, if you don’t wear makeup, you don’t care about yourself. Another side of the debate, perhaps the more viscous side, says that those who wear makeup are self-absorbed, vain, and do it to solely to attract men. Neither of these things are true and do what makes you happy. Makeup can be empowering and can help you look put together, especially when you’re not feeling your best.

7.) You don’t have to be pretty to be worthy: Looks aren’t everything. Yeah, maybe your nose is kinda long when looking from the side, your eyes shrink when you smile, you have a freckle on your eye (yes, this is a thing), your eyebrows are thick, your teeth are kinda tiny, your chin looks crooked due to jaw problems, and sometimes in photos you get a double chin. But you know what, your flaws are what make you, you! If we all looked like Angelina Jolie, Angelina Jolie would not be considered as attractive as she is. At the end of the day, it’s how you carry yourself and how your personality shines through your smile that matters. Work with what you got and you’ll be much happier than constantly trying to think of who you could be and hoping that one day you’ll wake up and those flaws will be gone. It’s better to look interesting and unique than to be purely pretty.

8.) The classics you read in English class will not enrich your understanding of the world and change your life: This is a complete and total lie. Many high school classics are really boring and you’ll wonder why people like them so much. Their life messages will be basic and things you have heard before. Modern day literature literary themes and messages are so much more complex and in-tune with today’s complex world. You will learn immensely from these books and they will change the way you look at things.

9.) Don’t be embarrassed to read children’s books and not read them as a result of this: Children’s books are often better written than adult and young adult fiction and contain more complex characters and plot lines. Just because you are older than 12 does not mean that you can’t enjoy them as much, if not more than, a child.

10.) Don’t feel the need to defend yourself: Don’t defend your gluten-free/dairy-free diet, your hobbies, tv show/movie/book preferences, clothing style, nothing. Decent people won’t care and it is more fun to just live than think about if they’re judging you (because they probably are).

11.) Don’t spend time being angry at people you once thought were friends and fantasizing about their demise: Forgiveness will not be your strong point. Unfortunately, karma doesn’t often serve people who deserve it and you just need to accept that fact. Trying to outsmart them or thinking about their lives being ruined won’t do you any good because most likely, they won’t. They aren’t caring or feeling guilty about your pain, so you should just brush it off and keep on walking.

12.) Don’t watch a tv show just because everyone else is watching it: If certain popular comedies don’t make you laugh, don’t think that there must be something wrong with you because everyone else likes it. You just have different tastes and that’s okay. Maybe you won’t have as much to talk about, but at least you won’t be sitting there for a half  an hour waiting for it to be over.

13.) Allow people to be angry: You will get people angry at you and sometimes, instead of trying to get people to wrap up things nicely, neatly, and quickly with you, you just have to let them be mad. It’s tough holding it all in and feeling that negative energy around you, but a lot of people need time to cool off. This is a process and you’re not going to have the easiest time with this. In fact, you will still be working on it when you write this list.

14.) Don’t worry about college finances as much: You will get great financial aid  for the top schools you wanted to go to and you didn’t need to spend all of those nights tossing and turning in bed.

15.) You will not have an amazing group of friends, a boyfriend, or go on cool vacations during high school: Just not gonna happen. Sorry, no can do. Instead of imagining these scenarios and envisioning your life becoming interesting, just live it. Read a book. Take some photos. Learn about something new in history. Get better at whatever you’re terrible at. While having an amazing group of friends, a boyfriend, and cool vacations is awesome, you don’t need these things to have decent teen years. Society lies and convinces us that we need these things to be fulfilled, but as long as you have a few epic people in your life, hobbies, and an imagination you will be happy enough.

Hope you all enjoyed that. These things that I learned during high school are things that I’m still working on today and some of them I might be working on for the rest of my life. But I think it’s great that I identified these things early on and I believe that the lessons that I learned during my teen years will carry over into my college years and beyond.

What are some lessons you learned during your high school? Did you learn any of the same lessons that I mentioned?

I really would love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this. Don’t be shy and leave a comment (I ❤ ❤ ❤ comments).

xoxo
Alex